We Can’t Be Friends Continued

Can’t Be Friends This works in two ways and can very often end well, but there are those cases where they don’t!    The 1st case is when you have tried your best and nothing is enough.    You tried to be  everything to them and in return all you got was lies, pain, and eventually replaced!

The problem with this approach is that the because you are no longer in a relationship. Often one person’s expectations has changed.  If you no longer bare the title of Girlfriend/boyfriend but you still find yourself taking on the responsibilities of a Friend Girl or a Guy who is just a Friend. It makes for a sticky situation.

Ladies even some fellas have been through this, where the titles of  ”Girlfriend”, “Wifey”, or “Boyfriend”  have been placed on you, Only to look up and see the real title holder!

This is when you can’t just be friends.   You have given your heart away to someone who can’t hold it or take it!

Then there are times when it’s just not working, Where neither  of  you did anything wrong or hurt each other but for whatever reason you two can’t make it work!  And seeing them with someone else is just as painful as staying together!

Don’t Worry- Have you ever waited on someone to figure out what it is they want?   They always seem to say to you “Don’t Worry” well that only adds to the “WORRY”!

Many times we fall in love with someone who isn’t ready to be loved or in love so they hope you stick around until they are!

They play the field while you waiting by the phone, you even tell your friends “No it’s not like that he does care about me.”  They try to warn you, however being in his arms is all you think about, because in your eyes when you are in those arms he does care.

So it would seem anyway you try not to “Worry” but yet all you do is wonder is “What the hell am I dong here?”

Girlfriend/ Boyfriend-Many times when in a relationship we take these title lightly thinking they will never step out or find anything better then what they have!

BIGGEST MISTAKE EVER anyone can be replaced at any given time really!

Relationships are a give and take.   And when all you do is take eventually they will find someone who wants to give! The hardest part is when your heart wants to stay but your feet are headed to the door, yet your hands won’t open door! Your mind is trying to find any reason at all to explain why you can’t move!

Break Up To Make Up- This is when he or she knows that you are always going to be there for them no matter what! No matter the struggle, you will always find a way to make them smile! Your heart is breaking, but you’re still there to make sure that their heart is in tack!

Breaking up sometimes is a great thing..It can give you a chance to see what it is you really want, but some people use it to hold on to the one they let go!

Many times making up is the best part and the reason we break, up so we can have that reunion again.   However If you let someone go too many times, your run the risk of them find every reason not too return!

When it takes old photos, old messages to make you smile because you can’t seem to make any new memories that make you happy…It’s time to BREAK UP!  When I’m sorry is all you hear and after a while you don’t care to hear it anymore BREAK UP!    When your tears spend more time with you then they do BREAK UP!

Continued From I Just Can’t be Friends