Do you remember the song by George Michael called I want your sex? I love the line that says “Sex is natural sex is fun, sex is natural one on one” or the song by Salt and Pepper called Lets talk about sex?
I love the chorus that says “Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me lets talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be.” Talking about sex is exactly what I want to start doing more of.
Here we are in January 2011. For years I wanted to buy myself the sex and the city dvd collection but I just couldn’t afford it. This past christmas I ask my mother to buy it for me and she did. Every since I started watching it I cannot seem to get my mind off of sex. Can you imagine why?
It’s been almost a year since I have had sexual contact. Although I have gone longer sometimes it just gets out right annoying. I have moments when the longing for a man’s touch just about drives me mad.
I will be 36 this month and I have only had about 7 sexual partners and only 1 of them has left a lasting memory in my mind. I mean this guy made me cry when he left my house. I felt so beautiful and it was just so ummm. There were things about it that could have been better but overall that experience will not leave my mind unless one comes (no pun intended) to trump that.
I have been interviewing a 27 year old male friend of mine named Clark (He said I could say his name and include his facebook link. He is such a typical male) about his sexual encounters with women. He says that 90% of the women he has slept with were horrible in bed.
What I find most interesting is that we all have our own perceptions of what is good sex or bad sex. I find that who we are and how we respond trickles over into every situation we are in.
I will also share my experiences although few about sex. I will describe the difference between making love and just plain out being f*cked. I am really excited to show you a different side of me.
I like to be more of a inspirational writer but I’m sure you will find that even with talking about sex I will give you something to think about that will help you make better choices. My first piece will be on oral sex. Do you swallow? To be continued……..
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