So I recently sat down to think about what I would post to pop my cherry with “The Single Girl’s Guide to Men”. As I’m thinking, my sister and I start to have a conversation about good sex . Aha!!!! That would be the subject of my first posting.
What makes good sex??? I thought the answer to this question was so simple. Good sex is when you have an orgasm….right? Ummmm….wrong! Or at least wrong according to some of the people that I have asked.
I assumed that all the men I asked about good sex would answer that it required a wet pu—vagina. I know…kinda crude. But that’s how guys could be.
And then I assumed that women would gravitate more toward the emotional connection of sex as we are more emotional creatures.
There are the exceptions to the rule like a good friend of mine that just requires a erect di—penis. Of the men that I asked, a majority of them answered that good sex is about the connection with the other person.
Being able to share yourself physically and emotionally was the common denominator amongst the men and women asked about good sex.
There were the occasional people that were just concerned with the orgasm. I think when it really boils down to it, single people that are not interested in settling down do not really care for the emotional connection of sex.
That euphoric high of the O is enough. But when you’ve found someone that you really care about, sex is more of an expression of what you feel for them.
I personally need the emotional and physical connection of sex and the orgasm is needed too.
First off let me say Welcome…I think you are on point with this for me. I know that I have been getting sooooo much bad sex that I had to take a break and regroup and I think it’s because for me it’s more than an Orgasm but let’s face it not every man has the skills to make that happen. I’m at a point where it boils down to compatibly sexually and in the way we relate to each other in the relationship.
I had great sex with a guy and never got the “traditional” orgasm..but my body felt great during and after the sex was over..it was amazing..have a traditional orgasm probably would have been too much..
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First off let me say Welcome…I think you are on point with this for me. I know that I have been getting sooooo much bad sex that I had to take a break and regroup and I think it’s because for me it’s more than an Orgasm but let’s face it not every man has the skills to make that happen. I’m at a point where it boils down to compatibly sexually and in the way we relate to each other in the relationship.
I had great sex with a guy and never got the “traditional” orgasm..but my body felt great during and after the sex was over..it was amazing..have a traditional orgasm probably would have been too much..