Women like men that can contribute to their situation a male friend of mine told me that if we start picking men that we wanna follow, women would learn to make better choices.
If a man has no plan, no future, wonders aimlessly through life and through love without a plan why would we wanna tie ourselves to them? I remember asking a girlfriend of mine if she had ever met a man, with whome she saw herself being a part of HIS-Story? His Legacy, a footnote in history as the Love of his life.
Now some may say that I am a little naive but let’s just think for a moment about Martin & Coretta, Malcom & Betty, Barack & Michelle.
Malcolm X and Betty Shabazz I love her look of adoration
Your name here &….
Is the man you are dating now, the one you want your name linked to in history for all eternity?
Is there a man that you know that you would love to have your name tied to forever?
Have you dated someone that shared their dreams with you, that you actually saw them coming true with you by his side?
At the time her answer was the same as mine NO, to which I told her I think we are doing this wrong.
Intelligent women want men that can contribute to them in all situations not just financial.
Inspire you to do and be better, and BE better. Maybe I am too idealistic, But I always thought that every good man had a good woman by his side cheering him on. I asked a young man on a recent date, If I choose to be with him. How could he make me better. He didn’t much have a specific answer but what the question did, was allow me to think about wanted the answer to be.
I recall telling someone recently that the sexiest thing an ex had ever done for me was tutoring me in algebra, when I had decided to go back to college. He supported my undergraduate education and encouraged me to go on to get my Master’s Degree .
Not that, the break up of the Relationships was all peaches and cream but what I can say is that he impacted my life in a positive manner. And actually helped me become a better me (although I would never tell his ass that lol).
I would like to think that when I meet someone with the possibility of sharing my heart, My one true desire should be to contribute to them in such a way that I improve upon their strengths.
And he do the same for me. But please understand that in no way means that I wanna try to change him or have him change me, but I would hope that we share alike desires, have similar dreams, and definitely goals, of what we would like our lives to be like in the future. And that would allow for the both of us to do what we need to do individually to make that happen.
And if you are with a man who has no thoughts or no plans of life beyond today Unless you are 20, Note to self he is not husband material. and He definitely isn’t your dream love.
Do you have a Dream Love? How has your mate inspired you to be better? Is the man you are dating now, the one you want your name linked to in history for all eternity? Have you dated someone and loved their dreams? would you know this kinda man if you saw him? wanna know how to recognize your king? Leave a Comment I wanna hear from you.
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