Honestly that wasnt my intent and there were some guys there that didnt swing that way but for whatever reason they werent up to each others taste. But There was one man in particular with whom I was completely enthralled, who came to the party and was a Guest of Our Hostess. He was clearly effeminate but if you missed those signals he had a Fabulous Birken Bag that cost more than my car..to clue you in on what team he played for..
So one night after the party I was hanging out with the aforementioned gentleman. And He made a remark about how he sometimes indulged in the lady pond… ** BLANK STARE** Now, He was completely transparent so I didnt mind asking candid questions and he as completely honest when I asked him which he preferred and He told me his preference was found the comfort of men, but he is constantly hit on by women… To which I asked a dumb question, Do they know youre gay!?! and he said Girl Yes. So I directed my attention to his companion for the evening and he Told me he wasnt Gay persay because his preference is women but he sometimes dabbles in men.
Now this isnt the first Ive heard of this phenomenon, of straight women hitting on and wanting To be sexually involved with openly gay men And Birken is a cool guy and all but am I missing something, could you be attracted to an overtly Gay Man?
Have you heard of this?
Is having a man that dabbles in Men a deal breaker?
and if you are attracted to a gay man what do you attracts you about them?
Do you think its ok to ask your man if hes ever been with other men? Leave a comment Id love to hear your thoughts..
Im never completely shocked at things I hear but this was a little new even for me..