Why Men Cheat

Hello all Let me start by sayin that I feel honored to actually be here talking with you ladies.my purpose here is to really help you ladies understand some of the things we as men do with that said let us begin

Ok I can't count how many times I've heard this question Why do men cheat no matter how you phrase it (men, my man, all men) the question is the same.  Well I'm gonna tell ya why but first Ladies think back to the beginning of a relationship everything is sooo sweet. He gives you all his time, and vice versa. The sex is great (hopefully). Conversations seem great he might actually act as if he is listening. YOU ARE SOOO HAPPY then it happens  you and another female/male somehow someway he's ruined something great. You may have even done things with him or allowed him to do thing that you have never done before so why would he try to get outside what he can get at home? Depending on the dude, it can be one or a couple of reasons.

Now keep in mind the reason given to you may not be the actual reason sometimes we as men don't want to tell you the truth as to why we cheated because we feel that it would mess things up for the next dude. Also we do have a heart and more than likely didn't want you to find out the way you did (if at all) because a lot of times cheating is for instant gratification. Of course some no many of us forget that and it becomes another relationship, which to me is dumb because men while we can do a lot of great things we cannot lie. I really feel if men could lie as good as women maybe we wouldn't get caught now I am not endorsing cheating I'm just stating the facts.

Think back to the beginning of a relationship. When all the free time is spent together, conversations were good sex was great. Then one day, things changed. You don't know when or why but they have. You begin to feel separation between the 2 of you and then BAM YOU FIND IT a phone number in his phone, pants or wallet. An email to an account you never knew about. Pictures of a body that is not yours. YOU CAN'T BELIEVE THIS SHHHHH AFTER ALL YOU'VE DONE FOR HIM/HER. All the time you have invested in this relationship. All the BS you put up with? WHY???? Well here are some possible reasons...

Reason # 1- She Don't do what she used to.

If in the beginning if you were getting it in on a regular and now it has seem to taper off, maybe because of work, school, stress or maybe you're just not feeling that sexual well you forgot to give him the memo, and he is left to figure it out on his own. Most times when we assume well you know how that line goes and it is true in this case. He may take the fact that the love making he used to get without even asking has changed to trying to catch you in the right mood as a sign that you're not into him that much anymore. Or maybe it was just to get him open. So now he is searching for what he used to. When this is his reason for cheating it's more of an instant gratification thing. He may loved the way you did certain things and now he don't get it anymore or not as much as he used to so he will try to find it elsewhere.  This does mean he wants to leave, no longer loves you or anything, men are sexual creatures as much as they are hunters. So when we are not getting what we are used to we will find it elsewhere. This is why a lot of men cheat with women that are below the standard of their lady because if they have to choose there is no question. He will choose you. So best way to keep this from being the reason your man stray Like mama used to say Don't give it all up fast pace it out but keep it consistent.

TO BE CONTINUED..

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