Make It Last Longer How to Avoid Pre-Ejaculation

Ok so I had a conversation with a girlfriend recently who told me that her boyfriend popped the question. From the tone of the conversation I was almost surprised that she was so subdued about the whole affair. So I asked her, and you said to which she replied, Well I don’t have a problem with marrying him but I guess I will have to cheat on him. So stupidly I asked Why would you do a thing like that ? and she said.. well he just doesn’t satisfy me sexually.

OUCH now as every man knows it may be a little hard to please a woman. God Knows it aint that easy pleasing me. And If you are a man that comes from the school of thought that sex is just for men. You might catch us the first time but um there might not be a repeat performance. So my next question to her was what was wrong with the sex. Cause I mean I have a few suggestions on how to make your man a better lover in the sack. But then she hit me with one of the two of the problems no woman can cure one of which is size does matter, but in his case he was a two minute lover.

So I had to do some research. I asked a man who I know doesn’t have this problem. And after I convinced him that this was a problem of a real friend and not a friend he gave me several ways to look at it from a man’s perspective, of what might cut his running time a little short. So he said if:

He is filled with anticipation to have sex with that woman, and hasn’t seen her in a while

If he is just not attracted to her and just wants to get it over with

If he is using condoms he might just need to readjust it.

If he can’t help it because of lack of control

Or He is really really attracted to her?

Now knowing the situation with my friend I know that the problem is probably A, D or E. So I asked him how is it that you can’t help it and he said He’s probably thinking too much. (Now since I don’t have a penis I have to rely completely on research for this one), But I have often wondered how this happens. So I had to seek advice from the experts.

Learn about Valsalva Maneuver

Premature Ejaculation can be frustrating to a relationship and can actually decrease a partner’s sex drive. In my friend’s case although her and this guy has an otherwise good relationship she doesn’t even start up with the sex stuff with him to have him let her down. If a woman thinks she is not going to have a satisfactory orgasm. There is no way a real woman that is gonna allow that to continue without getting a little something something on the side. Or getting rid of you or putting you back into the permanent friend zone.

So here are a few suggestions that you and your partner can try to help to resolve these issues.

1. Talk to him, this may be the most important suggestion of all no man wants to know that he isn’t satisfying his lady. And this is not always a good thing to hear (some men get very defensive) but if you tell your man in a tactful or hell a not so tactful way (some men like challenges) they may take it personal and try to do their best to prove you wrong.

2. WEAR CONDOMS. For obvious reasons the use of condoms are great for disease prevention but it is also good in decreasing the sensitivity during sex. By decreasing the sensitivity hopefully your partner will be able to last a little bit longer.

3. Masturbation-this cures the anticipation part. If you guys go too long between sex this may help him to see what works by allowing him to get to know his parts. With Practice he will be able to identify when he is about to ejaculate and thus he will know what to do to make sure it doesn’t happen to soon.

4. PULL OUT whenever you feel like you are about to reach an orgasm. Take 5. Kiss her body, do something else, stay in the mood but when the sensation past get back on in there. And women if you are in tuned with your partner’s rhythms some of you may notice a change in sensation at that time and you might wanna stop things or change up.

5. Chose your position: Ask Men has an article about the best positions that make you last longer I haven’t given these a try for this purpose but knock yourself out..lol http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/66b_love_tip.html

6. Breathe Deep if you try a simple technique to take your mind off the activity and concentrate on something else maybe you will be able to concentrate more on your partner. So you can try this breathing technique here http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/686303/way_to_make_your_sex_last_longer_and.html

7. Get your mind off it. Try to focus on something else; one suggestion I was told was that the man should try to focus on something else in the room.

8. Focus on making her achieve orgasm before the sex act. There are plenty ways you can make a woman achieve an orgasm that doesn’t have anything to do with penetration there are several ways you can help her get hers before you get yours. But here’s just a few, focus on clitoral stimulation, introduce the use of toys, allow her to tell you what works for her, make her feel sexy.

9. Go for seconds. If you have already achieved an orgasm that fell short of the time mark. Get back up and get on in there. Surely the second time it will last longer.

10. KEEP AN OPEN MIND. If your woman is telling you that the sex needs improvement that is because she values the relationship and she wants you guys to work on it to make it better. Trust me, if she didn’t care she wouldn’t tell you anything since she would just stop taking your calls.

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