I was on the phone with one of my most favoritest girl friends. After a recent break up of a fiancée she told me that a friend had invited her to an event, where …
I feel as if the boundaries of respect have been pushed so far past its limits it is frequently becoming harder and harder to know what I should take personal and …
My Facebook inbox is full of questions at one time or another. and yesterday I received a question from one of my newly adopted Brothers and the conversation went …
Damn leave it to My facebook Friend Nef and her notes. I have referenced her before, but this one today was a “Doozie” (as is always). So this morning when …
Sometimes in relationships We become a mirror image of how other people see us. Recently I bumped into my X. And He remarked how much of a difference he saw in my …
Ok so this is not for the faint of heart. I’m just telling you how it T-I IS!! When I was 21 and I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me, my Auntie Chris …
It’s not about what you think but leave it to Hugh Hefner to turn something wholesome and sweet into something well, not. But as usual Hugh had the pulse on the …
While watching this fabulous episode from season one, I am sad to say that this one hit kinda close to home. After a few weeks of being with Mr Bigg, Carrie had …
I wrote this little list of Mistakes men make while in the act and back in 2005 and I found it recently and although the language is a bit colorful this list still …
Don’t you just love today’s title, every last one of you guys better be singing Boy George right now, or I will really have to question if we have anything in common! …
1. Be a good Listener. Pay attention to the small details although you may have some moves that you have perfected along not every woman/man is the same. So the …
As a mother of a son entering into his teenage years. I already know that he needs his space. The joke is that if the door is closed or if he is taking a long shower, …
Everything is foreplay, fore play implies just that. They are the activities before the act. You would be surprised at just how many people don’t pay attention …
Ok so I had a conversation with a girlfriend ecently who told me that her boyfriend popped the question. From the tone of the conversation I was almost surprised …
I have some REALLY DEEP THOUGHTS about this movie But I will wait to discuss it until everyone has seen it or at least till Monday. I do have a tip for the Guys …
When I was 3 years old my mother dated a man named Johnny banks. In my early childhood I can’t remember him ever not being around. Although I knew who my father …
Ok so I know I know the single girl’s guide to men right you would think that I had it altogether uhm, yeah (lol). So I have a friend who I have been seeing very …
And I can’t!! Why is it that the only black men who don’t have a problem committing aren’t looking to commit with more black women. I mean I’ll give the ‘bride’ …
If I didn’t tell him…I saw this coming. I knew that this was going to happen.So I am out to dinner on a “non-date” with a friend of mine. It is a platonic …
Well I normally try not to read the competition Essence Magazine, (just joking ) but this month when I passed the News stand I couldn’t help but buy it and a recent …
